Audience: collecting their language and pains
AI for social media and blogging · Lesson 2 / 20
A profile built from data, not imagination
"Women 25 to 45, interested in self-development" is not an audience, it is a line from an ad dashboard. You cannot write a single hook from it. A useful profile has three parts: the words people use for their problem, what they already tried and abandoned, and what they are afraid to say out loud.
Where the raw material comes from
- Your own comments and direct messages. The last 100 are the most honest source. Copy them verbatim, typos and slang included.
- Reviews of other products in your field. Mid-range ratings beat glowing ones: that is where people write what was missing.
- Questions under other people's popular posts. People ask about what they did not understand — that gap is what you close.
- Recordings of client calls. Five transcripts teach you more than a month of guessing.
The analysis prompt
Here are 100 comments from my audience (paste verbatim). 1. Extract 15 recurring PROBLEM statements in their own words, no paraphrasing. 2. Mark words that appear more than 5 times. 3. Sort problems into: don't know HOW / don't believe IT WILL WORK / no time / no money. 4. Name 5 fears that are only hinted at.
Point four returns the most. People openly write "I don't have time"; between the lines they mean "I am afraid of looking stupid if I try and fail." A post that names the second fear gets read to the end.
A working glossary
Keep a two-column file: how they say it, how I used to say it. "I can't get started" instead of "procrastination", "I don't know where to begin" instead of "lack of onboarding". Run every draft through this glossary before publishing and swap each right-column word for the left one. It is the cheapest edit you can make and the one with the most visible effect on read-through.
Cheat sheet
- A profile is words, attempts and fears. Demographics are useless.
- Raw material comes from your DMs, others' reviews and transcripts.
- Unspoken fears matter more than stated problems.
- The "them vs. me" glossary is applied before every post.
Collect 100 real statements from your audience: comments under your posts, direct messages, questions under other people's posts in your field. Run them through the analysis prompt from the lesson. Write out 15 problem statements verbatim in their words, mark the 5 most frequent words, sort the problems into the four causes, and name 5 unspoken fears. Separately, build a glossary of at least 8 pairs of 'how they say it — how I said it' based on your own recent posts.